Before the Ice Cream Melts

When you were three, everything was extraordinary, and we can all relate to afternoons like this one, not because anything extraordinary happened, but because each moment was new for you.

It all starts on a long beach day. There was sand tucked into your bathing suit, salt dried on your shoulders, and tiny grains of Bermuda’s pink sand sun-screened between your toes. The hot air had warmed your skin, and your hair had long since escaped whatever careful braids it was fashioned into at the beginning of the day.

Then someone says “ice cream!”

You tiptoe as quickly as you can across the hot, sugary sand toward the little beach shop. You move as fast as your tiny feet can take you until you get to the cool, colorful tile of the storefront’s sidewalk. There, the shady area gently soothes your feet. The temperature change feels wonderful. You dance from one foot to the other while Dad orders the treats, trying so hard to wait patiently but not quite managing it.

And then you smell it: the chocolate, its deep, sweet cocoa cream and a freshly made sugar cone. Before the ice cream even reaches your hands, you can almost taste it. Your tongue escapes your mouth; you lick your lips in an acknowledgment of what is to come. You squeal with glee as this summer delight is placed in your possession. Your anticipation turns into your happy dance right there in the entranceway.

The cone is enormous, or at least it is when you are three. You take the first bite with complete determination. There is no careful little taste. Chocolate covers your lips, and the afternoon sun immediately begins working against you, softening the ice cream faster than you can possibly eat. Soon, sticky trails are running down the cone and over your fingers.

It doesn't matter. You lick. You bite. You chase the drips with both hands while the grown-ups laugh and quietly accept that there will be chocolate everywhere before this is over.

The ice cream, the drips, and the innate joy of this experience are just one of childhood's lovely freedoms.

At three, you don't worry about the mess. You don't know that the afternoon will end. You don't know that years from now, someone will look at this photograph and feel the warmth of that summer afternoon all over again.

They may remember it too: the smell of chocolate and sugar cone, the sand between tiny toes, sticky fingers, and the simple joy of being completely happy in the moment. Somehow, it brings us back to our own summer afternoons, when an ice cream cone was something wonderful, and the people who loved us were right there beside us.

When we are little, you only know the “now,” and perhaps that's one of the gifts children give the people who love them. Joy is in embracing the now.

We get to watch their world unfold while everything is still new. We get to encourage the curiosity, kindness, silliness, and absolute delight that arrives so naturally before life teaches us to hurry past them.

For a few minutes, standing beside a little girl and a melting chocolate cone, we remember how to notice the now too.

🤍 Heart Stitched Reflection

Sometimes joy is simply being small enough to believe a melting ice cream cone is the most important thing in the world.

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